InTerPreTaTiOn oF MaRRiaGe To Me & WhY i GoT MaRRieD...

Interpretation of marriage to Momma Zue is:
Marriage is a relation in which they promise to “live together during the good or bad times, during richness and poverty, misery and health until death parts them”.

I strongly believe not only LOVE that builds the relation but other strong factors like understanding, concern, devotion and dedication towards each other makes a successful marriage.... And reasons why i decide to get married 10 years ago are: 

1. To love and for being loved: A lot of people tie a knot because they are madly in love with each other (wa mabok kepayang......). Marriage gives you a certificate to intensely and passionately love each other legally. There are no bounds to the extent of love. There is no thought of guilt as you are stamped as a married couple sebab apa?  Sebab dah HALAL dork! This way you can shower love on your partner and be loved by your partner freely. Marriage fills up the loneliness in hearts of people longing for love.

2. To protect and be cared for: Once a woman gets married she feels secure in the arms of her man. Kira hubby ni BounCer lah, lol!  Men on the other hand, feel wanted and they like the fact of being the BounCer as they shelter a woman.

3. For satisfaction, pleasure and security: Wuuuhhhoooooo Olalaaaa.... A lot of people feel complete on getting married. They are satisfied and enjoy pleasures of life mentally, physically and sexually (Betol tak? Bedek ahhhh kalau tak betoi). There is a feeling of security amongst both partners mentally and financially, where both the partners can share their assets during difficult financial conditions. But unless you have that mentality, "Duit you, duit I and duit I tetap duit I", then gua rest my case babe!

4. Socially recognized and produce children legally:  There are a lot of social pressures if you remain unmarried for quite a long time.  Once married, people tend to respect you and tend to see you as a family oriented person. They term you as settled, once you are married. You can produce children and lead a typical family life with respect and love from your family as well as society.  But pernah tak korang dengar sok-sek-sok-sek about "Kawin bulan 2, tap tup bulan 9 dah ader anak???".  To me personally, lu punya kubur lu jawab sendri.  Lu brani buat lu brani tanggung janji lepas kawin, be a good parents and a role model to your children.  Learn from your mistake and never let the past haunt you. 

5. To escape Isolation: A lot of people feel lonely if they are single. After a days work when you are back to a home where there is nobody for you, that makes you feel isolated. Isolation is a major cause of heavy smoking and drinking. Isolated or singles tend to look older than their age. So apa lagik, sering2 dengar lagu "Carik Jodoh dari WaliBand" and mudah-mudahan jodoh tu sampai.... so akan tetap sentiasa nampak anggun & awet muda, ahaks!

6. To share responsibilities: Any person in this society is loaded with a lot of responsibilities where he/she cannot take it on his/her shoulders alone, so he/she needs a partner with whom he/she can share all his/her physical and mental responsibilities.  At least when comes to a problem, you have him as a listening ears and when he's overloaded with bills, you assist him to lighten up his burden.  Kira macam lu tolong gua, gua tolong lu lah.  Or macam dulu 5 dollar makan sorang, skarang tu 5 dollar kongsi samer2.  Ahaiii...