Susah betol nak buat keputusan...
Kepala pusing, hati keberatan...
Kalau tak amik, takot terlepas peluang keemasan...
Kalau conperm amik, dah tak bleh gostan...
Talipon orang sini, talipon orang sana...
Tak tahu dah braper kali berlinangan airmata...
Norma bingit lalu teriak, "Zue, ko dah kenapa?"...
"Boring tau macam ni, ko diam seribu bahasa"....
Tak dinafikan, belas ihsan salah satu alasannya...
Takut dibayar mahal tapi tak banyak kerja...
Ye lah, aku ni pun bukan orang berada...
Tapi dia automatic, ahhh tu yang aku suka...
Wajahnya sering aku terbayang...
Lebih2 lagi, time dia sembahyang...
Doanya dimalam akhir, amatlah panjang...
Oh my god! Camner ni skarang?
Aku tak nak susah kan laki...
Aku nak sumer orang happy...
Tapi skarang, akak masih berbelah bagi...
Apa kah keputusan akak nanti???
Tolonnngggggg!! Ma'am Ivy!!!!
ni ape kes ni nyah cuba cerita terang2.....
ReplyDeletekereta?
ReplyDeleteTakkan ler kereta leh sembahyang.... hihihih
ReplyDelete*dok pikiaq... pikiaq*
Misha Osman makin jembusssssss!
Ihik... ihiiikkkk
ReplyDeleteLooking for extra pair of hands...
stress akak.
ReplyDeleteLillahitaala.... Stress ni kan, lebig stressful dari making decision to get married....
ReplyDeleteOMG!!!
Hmmm dari gerak geri entry and cakap extra pairs of hands??....macam nak amik domestic helper ke??....
ReplyDeleteMacam gitu ler kisahnya... Separuh hati cakap nak, separuh hati cakap tak nak....
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha...Sampai hari ni kamu masi blm bisa buat lgk Keputusan Nyahh...
ReplyDeleteWell..SimpLe..Tanye aBg Le..die kate ok..Den proceed.
If die kate Nehe..Den Forget it. Isnt it simple s A,B,C...**winksz**
Nggak bisa lagi ma'am....
ReplyDeleteMulut kata dah decide but hati cakap can i make another choixe?
Tanya mak lagik, dia said she still can cope... but, but, but
susah eh nak buat keputusan,,, insya allah choose wisely =)
ReplyDeleteamek part time je larr, hehe *winks at NUN*
ReplyDeleteYes, awak pun susah jugak ke? Hihihi.... amciams? bibik baik?
ReplyDeleteNanti open haus jangan lupa jemput ma'am pat sini :)
Hihihihi, bleh tu bleh but kan, risiko tinggi.... wa tak brani
ReplyDelete*Winks at Nun balik*
Senang..G try lain punye lah..Den u noe.
ReplyDeleteaDa beLambak Maid pat sg nie...Tak indon, FiLipinz & India..
Mana mau..hehehehe
Sheeka memang bgs utk amik partym..Coz die masi lum ada aNak 3 sederat.**winkz @ Collett**
ReplyDeleteLagik2 ada rumah baru... tiap2 hari suruh maid sental cabinet yang LAWA giler tu jadik sentiasa kilat macam non nyer 3 carat stone... hihihi
ReplyDeleteMemang ada Pros n Prons nyeee...So if u dun wan..Dun wana force..
ReplyDeleteSendiri Mau Ingat jgk...**Phrase dlm VideoClip ku...**
Aiyah, nanti pecah tongkang aku tak rela!! Aku nak yang suweeettt macam Sal
ReplyDeleteSindir nampak.... * naikkan kening kanan*
ReplyDeleteTak Lah...Cume seLaLu ingat tu Phrase...hehehehe
ReplyDeleteMcm tu Baik Cepat..S i noe hang sik Tebayang jee muke die..
ReplyDeleteKu rasa c Sal ni die ada Auranye sampai kao Melekat ar...hehehe
latest sekarang from burma pun ada....tapi agree 101% very difficult to get a good helper.......arghhh nasib baik bibik ku dirumah alhamdullilah....(anyway tak nak cakap abis)
ReplyDelete****** kira duit kat dalam bank, oooppppsss you have $4.61 balance, cmner?
ReplyDeleteBurma pongs ada..... fuyooohhh, u nyer jaga anak u jer eh nyah?
ReplyDeleteSebab wa ingat ler wa dok pikiaq berkali-kali.... wa takut ujung bulan, "selipar jepongs pun wa tak mampu nak beli". Familiar tak ni line?
ReplyDeletehehehe faham saya faham... nanti tak leh shopping Lol
ReplyDeleteSo clever....
ReplyDeleteah'ah ma'am my neighbour nya from Burma but serious she is great..everymorning dia pagi2 da bakar chapati and cook keema for the employer..
ReplyDeleteMine...morning send her and my son to my mum place (she will help ard there) then evening kita fetch her back..(then she will help ard at my place plak)
Tanya ckit bleh nyah? Ur mum how old? And dia jaga cucu sorang jer eh (anak you)
ReplyDeletepikir betul2 nyah, ada bibik ni high expenses jugak..sebab dah tambah satu ahli keluarga..mcm anak kita sakit pening, makan dan harta karun kita kena belikan..tu tak pasal lah lum masuk sakit mental lagi kalau kena nasib yg kurang dpt good maid ni..
ReplyDeletemy mum in her 60s ah'ah anak I sorang je...but my mum ni lotsa activities..
ReplyDeleteagree tu ...da tu salary diorang skg pun quite high...my colleague was telling me now Indonesia salary range is $330-$350
ReplyDeletePikiaq lagik, dan lagik dan lagik.......
ReplyDeleteAku kesian kan mak aku lah nyah, anak makin dewasa, perangai pun berbeza-beza... kekadang anak aku ok, kekadang anak aku angin....
Biz kita makin berkembang, kita makin sibok bersembang (clinch deal) then takut mak aku yang tombang....
Arggghhh!!!! A lot of things in my mind......
Yes! And try korang add levy dia tiap2 bulan.... kali 2 tahun, makcowww!!! 12ribu siak!!! *check bank account lagik... you balance is $4.61
ReplyDelete*garuk telapak tangan kanan, oiitsss nak masuk duit ke ari ni? hihihihi....
Samer cam mak i.... activities apa nyah? Mesjid eh?
ReplyDeletenasib baik kalau ada budak levy murah sikit eh..
ReplyDeletebiasa...kelas sana kelas sini...
ReplyDeleteCikit pongs, tiap2 bulan $500 siots.... uhukkk uhuukkk
ReplyDeleteOh oh, my mum activities dia weekend ajer but that period, akak dah ada pat rumah ler....
ReplyDelete*tepok dahi* camner ni???
ada yg sampai $380 - $400 sis, ni yg experience maid..lagi pening lalat dibuatnya..
ReplyDeletemmg betul ah nyah tapi ko mesti pikir betul2 tau ada orang nasibnya baik dpt yg bagus..kena yg sasau ko tukar bin tukar pon kena kuarkan duit...aku lupa every 6mths ko kena antar medical check up hor...
ReplyDeletebetul kalau ku save 1 thn bleh buat down 1 lagi kureta
ReplyDeleteomg...wat da ada yang $400 eh....fuiyoooo.....anjat gegerl jap.....plus,minus,times,divide gan levy da dekat 600 gak...huh
ReplyDeleteyup betul every 6 mths nak gi check up...mine I baru antar last mth ..nasib baik cuma 36 bucks je...
ReplyDeleteYup, kekadang pembantu baik majikan pulak macam siak.... ada majikan baik pembantu amik advantage, tapi ada case jugak yang both ok and aman damai.... aku ada teman yang asyik complain pasal maid dia tapi bila dipikiaq skali lagik, perangai dia pun tak munasabah jugak. Apa maid buat sumer tak kena, takde respect ngan maid camner maid nak respect dia? Maybe retribution kot?
ReplyDeletePasal check up tu aku tahu.
honestly kalau ur mum ade tengok bdk2 tu with the maid oklah nyah...kalau dier sorang yang jaga then have to pikiaq baik2....coz like me kalau maid jaga sorang sesungguhnya aku serik & tak percaya...mcm2 cerita maid2 skarang ni....latest from my friend maid beli hp 3g & pakai bust cream....***slapzzz forehead***
ReplyDeleteur blog betul nye suspend arr!!
ReplyDeletekenape stressss nyah..... cuba cakap terang2 so tat we can give u a helping hand....;)
ReplyDeleteNyah kalau u kira in lum sum mesti lah banyak.... why dont u bank into the maid's account mthly so tak lah perit....
ReplyDeleteYes i know and kalau akak ada maid pun, akak will bank in every month. Aku cuma suka total up so that i can really see the whole expenses we will spend in 2 years....
ReplyDeletekan akak ni accountant pat rumah. Fraser ajar kita suruh buat budgetting.... hiiihihi
Correct! Bleh pi Goldcoast siots.... hihihi
ReplyDeletemy advise is....at least u took a maid yur mom is there to supervise on her...yes looking after kids nowadays is really really tiring (ingat nyah 3 olang woo...not 1 olang leh) so miad kalau ada orang supervise dia ada segan sikit nak buat yang tak senonoh...Anyway kita treat her as part of our family but of coz u ought to be firm/stern towards her.....And pls pls pls jgn kasi dia mix ard with other maids...takut2 dia get influenced easily
ReplyDelete$400? Kau!!! Kalau aku kasik $400 tak berbaloi siots sebab aku nyer rumah bukan nyer berserak sangat.... cuma touch up skit2 jer every week
ReplyDeletekalau $400 memang u can 4get bout the whole idea....rumah mukan sebesar Istana seh and bukan macam zoo negara nak kena bersihkan hari2
ReplyDeleteTu yang aku nyer TOP LIST.....
ReplyDeletePasal treat as family, YES insyaallah sebab aku dengar citer ada majikan tak kasik siot maid baca suratkhabar, nengok news... kesian siak, dorang pun manusia nak tahu hal ehwal dunia luar..... sesiapa yang ada maid, ingatlah yang maid tu membantu kita untuk meringankan daily routine and she's not YOUR SOCAI! Aku paling pantang siots kalau orang buat maid macam socai....
Hihihihi blog aku ni makin panas plak eh nyah.....
ReplyDeleteya lor, keja dia cuma jaga 1 doter, then no need to cook just assit the mother then clean the 4rm flat..pon susah jugak untuk maid ni..tak paham gue!!..
ReplyDeleteOohhh panassssssssss
ReplyDeletebetulllll dia pun macam kita juga....mencari rezeki...kalau kita kan tak suka kena tekan2 ngan boss same goes to them.....and bear in mind they have no1 else k kat cinjiapore
ReplyDeleteCorrect!!! Pemikiran mu sama macam aku..... aku sayang kat ko!
ReplyDeleteTapi kena maid yang degil, susah jugak nak tame kan nyah. Ni sumer nasib lah eh nyah.... aku ada eye ini satu maid, babut punyer tapi wa takut kalau wa lambat buat decision, dia akan diambil orangs..... aduuuhhhhhhh gimana gitu lohhh?
suggestion dari ku....amik je nyah.....ingat budak2 n yur mum....kesian yur mum lah nyah....ku yang anak 1 je amik sebab kesiankan mak ku....eh btw kalau nak amik jgn lupa agent fees
ReplyDeleteTapi kekadang ma'am ni pong macam siak. Expect the maid to do the un-expected things....
ReplyDeleteI always will remember tis phrase:
Ask yourself, are you able to do all those tasks ? If you cannot, then don't expect the maid to be able to do it. The maid is just a human being like you and me.
tat is why lor i said must think carefully, i have a distant relative mmg lum reseki dia dpt good maid ah..keja lagi senang seh jaga anak lelaki satu P2, rumah 5rm, laki bini keja so she is left at home alone..and u know keja less than 2mths dah mintak balik..reason tak boleh masak padahal dah ajar.then went send back do spot check kat bilik..harcow bawah bantal ada jarum, rambut ko tgk tak ke cekik darah tu!!!!...ni dah satu hal bila agent ripped off her bag tercampaklah semua tangkal mangkal!!!..but i agreed lor ada hidop aman damai but must give and take..
ReplyDeleteInsyaallah.... nengok camner nanti. Aku told myself that i kena decide by Monday. And i hope the one which i want is still with the agent. Kalau dah kena amik, aargghhh gua gigit jari babe!
ReplyDeleteSiak ah nyah!!! Lu kasik wa takut lagik....
ReplyDeletehmm bukan senang nak decide kan..
ReplyDeletei pun terpikiak nak engage a maid, but then many things to consider..
privacy dah tak kan macam dulu.. finance : additional $600 - 700 just for one maid?
takper nyah.. pikiak pelan2.. tapi kalau dah ada maid, kena jaga jaga hah..
cannot really trust 100% on them..
~mommie siti & Baby Ilhan~
Pandai ko baca isi hatiku..... like i've said, akak bukan orang berada...
ReplyDelete*pikiaq lagik*
nyahh, like now i engage a maid once a month at $10.00 per hour to clear all the tedious work like lap tingkap, mop and sweep whole house.. As and when pun i ada buat lah, but having a maid once a month lightens my load a bit.. kalau dia dah habes all the chores, she will usually do a whole load of ironing which i always dread doing..
ReplyDeletehave you considered part time? if you take weekly, it can cost half of what you will be paying for a full time maid..
~mommie siti & Baby Ilhan~
bukan kasi takut nyah tapi ni lah kenyataan bila ada maid..bila kita dah give and take baik treat like our own..ada yg nak step taitai jadi terciptalah mcm2 cara as stated..ahaahaa ada lagi cuma mak tak mau citer..pasal maid tak boleh abis..mana majikan tak petpotpetpot..
ReplyDeletezue, kalo da dapat yg bagus(ur heart will will say so), tawakkal n amek ajer... coz really..susah nak dapat yg REALLY REALLY good lah.. amek maid mcm gambling apa... 1st few mths baik..we treat her gd.. suddenly buat hal...
ReplyDeleteaku carik maid 10 bulan baru dapat seh..
if ada ur fren yg nak transfer maid lagik bagus.. but then again ur mum is arnd, so no worries lah..i think lagik cepat she learn the ropes coz ur mum can supervise..
jgn cakap 60yr old ++...mak aku yg 50 jer i alredi kesian if i were to leave her wif the budak n housework all day long... TIRING SIAAAA ..(cukoplahhh 1 yr aku jadi full time mother n housewife!) i need some air! hahaha
gd luck beb!
yeap it can be tiring for our moms to take care of babies..
ReplyDeletethats why i planned to send my baby to child care at the age of 18months later on..
but if you asked me again : i always think twice and thrice before engaging a FULL time maid.. Takot pun ada..
~mommie siti & Baby Ilhan~
wa sokongsss pat ni sis
ReplyDeletehmm.. having heard too many negative stories from pple and families members itself, it is a lesson learnt.. They can go as far as "take our place"!
ReplyDeleteThis can be true you know.. masok jer rumah, mesti check in and outside! this is to play safe! my moms and aunties used to have maids and almost 9/10 are problematics! Kaaaoooz!
Then again there are good ones around.. ini semua nasib lah zue..
to me : once bitten twice shy (my mom & aunties case)
~mommie siti & Baby Ilhan~
nyahh belom try belom tau..
ReplyDeletetak try mana tau kan..
hehee
~mommie siti & Baby Ilhan~
hehehe..
ReplyDeletekalau dah ada maid full time,
nak lari lari satu rumah "nude* pun dah tak boleh mommie zue!
*giggles*
~mommie siti & Baby Ilhan~
nyah unexpected things or extra ordinary mcm mana nyah..kita as housewife routine masak, basuh, cuci tingkap, mop satu rumah, siram pokok bunga jaga anak follow up with school homeworks gan extra2 job..hahaaaa senang cakap kita buat lagi details compared to them..ni pendapat aku je lah ye..and their job is half of that ada yg lebih untung tak payah masak..kena dpt employer mcm boss gue lagi shiok keja dia cuma amik gan antar je anak2 dia from school pon tak leh make it...kasi simple instruction to give medication pon tak boleh jugak..madang lupa..haha ko tgk citer hantu betul...dulu aku suka cakap agaknya kena dera ah gan employer mintak mcm2..skali ku amik maid baru ku tau kenapa dan mengapa..hehe...padan muka kus..
ReplyDeletetat is why aku really tak paham on those maids yg suka kasi problem are they really keen to work or just to seek leisure?..meh kita renung2kan..hehehehe
wuahaha tau tak pe Mr lee, mcm rumah gue semua kena sopan je mau2 mcm2 kena wait till midnite..wuahahaaaha
ReplyDeleteya lor those greedy one take our plc completely..terus kita terkuar title..selish2..
ReplyDeleteOooohhhhhh yes! Kalau mahu tunggu malam skit....
ReplyDeleteSkarang, my issue is not about cleaning house... my issue is pasal my mother. Braper kali kita tanya dia dok jawab, "Mak masih kuat.... kalau mak dah tak kuat nanti mak bilang. Ahhh baru boleh amik maid".
ReplyDeleteTapi kan, aku kaji balik. Kalau nak tunggu sampai mak akak dah tak larat, tu dah terlambat. TU yang akak dok risau tu.... nanti aku akan disoal nyah pat akhirat. "Yaaaa Zuriaty Binte Rani. Dimanakah tanggungjawab kamu sebagai seorang anak serta seorang ibu...."
Mak cowwwww, takuts!!!!!
Macam boss kita. Tiap2 bulan mengomel kalau report salah *jeling pat norma*
ReplyDeleteTawakkalillaallah...... amin
ReplyDelete*malam ni call agensi*
Mungkin ko dah fobia.... pasal experience lama
ReplyDeleteYes, macam kerja kita jugak. Dpaat boss baik, alhamdulillah... dapat boss songel, aiyoyoooo macam nak resign 24hrs siots
ReplyDeleteMacam making babies kan, tak try tak tahu betapa shiiiioooooooookedu nyer! Hihihihi
ReplyDeleteEuuuwww tak pernah try nyah... sumpah sebab sejak kawin, we bring my parents along... and swear kita tak pernah rasa terkilan.... hihihihi
ReplyDelete*Nak jugak try buat atas washing machine.... hahahhahah*
Wat i meant by my phrase was..... letak kata mop rumah, kita slalu pakai mop. Ada majikan tak for granted suruh pakai kain basah then lap when you're on four (merangkak gitu). Tak ke kerja giler. Then letak kata kita lap tingkap pakai the equipment, tapi bila ada maid ko suruh climb. Tak ker giler lagik tu.....
ReplyDeleteMemang perit dear. But recap balik cakap Cik Sa'amah, kalau apa yang kita nak buat, nawaitu tu satu that is untuk kedua ibu bapa kita, insyaallah balasan rezeki kita bertimpal ganda....
ReplyDeleteini betul!!
ReplyDeleteameeeeennn!!!
Biarin saya saja yg jadi bibik la maam...berapa bayarannya saya sanggup
ReplyDelete:)
Mak ai.... hihihi
ReplyDeleteohhh yesssss...i know this aint' an easy decision to come to....
ReplyDeletebeen there done that...
so, whatever decision you'll come to, i hope that's the best for you and your family too...hugz
Yes darling, pikiaq pikiaq and pikiaq....
ReplyDeleteIni yang kita selalu doa for, always nak yang terbaik untuk family :)
Aminnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!
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