OuR ConCLuSioNz after the 1 week's ConCuSSioN (hihihi)....

To all my galfwens & boipren (so far cuma Abang Le jer yang komen)....

Thank you for all your feedbacks, sharing of experiences, warnings, kaup information from my blog for your future reference and bla bla bla....We have decided to take a maid or should i call it nicely as "pembantu rumah"...

Reason being ARE:



1) Top top priority is for my beloved mum cos I don want to drag longer and i'm really afraid that if i'm late, she might exert herself to the MAX... and it will leave me with a wholelife having that regret feelings in me

2) So that she can have more free time to do her daily activities.  I'm now planning to get her involve with the morning tai-chi which is jus across the road.  At least she can socialise more in a healthy way (now she is sociable and most peepz that meets her, lurves her so much ~ sama-sama like me lah, ahaks!)

3) She can revise back her Quran lesson with my aunt (who is her guru mengaji) dengan TENANG since now they are going into topics about Tadarus & Qiamulail....

4) She don have to hurry herself whenever she goes out shopping @ Chong Pang market.  Normally she will rush after buying her supplements cos IZ comes back from school by 2.20pm

5) Whenever there's a kematian or someone fall sick, she wont have to feel guilty anymore asking me to take urgent leave.  Same goes when she is sick, she can really really close the door and rest while dad can keep a look out

6) She can wake up slightly later during some of the days if she want to

7) She can then be like other Nenek Super Canggih, enjoying her retirement life... ni lah sisa-sisa hidup dia and i want her to enjoy life since she has been working for me and my siblings ever since i'm 3 years old!  Mak takut disoalkan di Akhirat nanti, "yaaa Zuriaty Binte Rani.  Manakah tanggungjawab kamu sebagai seorang anak."  Takotsssss....

For my kids:



1) The bois can learn Mandarin from her!!! Her Mandarin is goodzzzzz.  Berbual macam air.... she can even converse wif me in Mandarin since her English is not that powerful, championzzz!

2) If IZ's skool call to say that he is sick in skool (touch wood), I don have to trouble my sister to fetch my kids from skool.  I hope i can train her to do the fetching

For me & Abang Le:



1) Whenever we leave the house to meet clients or work, we can rest assure that my mum will have extra pair of hands to look after the kids.  With that, we will work more harder to maintain the family expenses (no joke ~ a total of 7 mouth to feed plus a maid it will be 8 mouth).  Lagik2 Singapore expenses are getting more and more expensive, we really need to work hard.  Employers!!! Naikkan lah gaji kita worrrrrr, kerja banyak, barang mahal tapi gaji tak naik.  Tak fair tau!!!!

2) We both don have to take long leave if my mum wanna go Umrah or holidays, we still take leave but not the norms 1 to 2 weeks leave which we have been thru

Once again, thank you to all ~ lots of brainstorming is better than 1..... hopefully tis is the right choice and i will try not to PanDanG BeLaKaNg.  Setiap yang terjadi ada sebabnya and i believe that kalau kita lakukan dengan niat yang suci, Allah akan balas perkara yang suci jugak.  And i hope, tis pembantu rumah will have the same nawaitu ngan kita so, you help me i help you....

Amin...................

p/S: Akak tak jadik pindah ke maisonette sebab baru jer tanya my regular housing agent.  Memang betol property boom and my house will definitely make money BUT nak beli rumah lain kena a at least $20k to $50k in your hand.  Mana nak cekau duit siotssss... $20 tu ok ler tapi ni $20k? Makcowwwww..... mati kekeringanssssss babe!

TGIF!!!!!!!