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Saper baca Berita Minggu yang baru lepas ni.... pasal Dr tu comment about parents pakaikan berut/bengkung for newborn babies.  Reason to wear was becos, nanti kembung puyut.  Kan Dr tu bangkang hidup2.... Ahhhhh sama ler macam akak.

Terus terang me cakap, i'm one of the NOTTY MOMMA.  Ada skit petua orang2 tua i follow but some i don.  Cos when i kaji (myself lah), bila nengok the logical is not practical, i buanggggg jauh2.

All my 3 childrens, i have never pakai kan bengkung.  Kesian sei.... kan rimas!!!!  Then kalau mu dok pakai kan baby tu bengkung, ketat2 pulak tu, a-then lepas budak tu minum susu pulak tu.... duuuhhh kan SENAQ!!!!!!!  Kalau mu dibuat camtu, tak ke nak muntah sebab senak? Ahhhhh pandai pun, tu pasal bila baby tu muntah, mu dok cakap masuk angin, masuk angin.  Padahal mu tak pikiaq tentang logical nyer.

Another Notty Momma of me, i never pakai kan my 3 children booties or gloves.  1stly, the moment dia bersalin, i will trim of their nails.  So that muka tak calar.  2ndly and personally i find it RIMAS.  Lain ler kalau tinggal dalam country sejuk.  Bleh ler pakai.  But Singapore ni very the humid.  Sure berpeluh2 budak tu nyer tangan.  Bila dah berpeluh, inviting bacteria.  Lagik kalau baby tu dok hisap2 gloves dia, aiyohhh MaSyeMmmmmm bau nyer.  Kasik ler budak tu free kan dia nyer fingers.  Cuba korang, 24 jam akak pakai kan glove, best tak? Kan rimas....

Another Notty Momma of moi, I jarangs2 bedungkan my kids.  Memang betol orang2 tua cakap, bedung ketat2 jadik baby tak terpanjat kalau tido.  I will, but only during the day time, itupun kadang2 and itupun bedung separuh jer.  Panas lah kalau bedung penuh.... moreover, their movement very restricted.  Camner budak tu nak stretch muscles dia so that they can grow faster?

And another Notty Momma of moi, and yang paling orang tua2 anti is....

1. Tak makan jamu.  Yes!!! I never eat the jamus.  OMG!!!!! I will eat for 7 days lepas tu bye-bye. But obat Dr kasik i tak putus.  Tu musti makanzzzz.... especially Obimin and not forgetting, Pati Ikan Haruan or Pati Essence Ayam & air kunyit with kuning telur is a must!
2. Urut yes, i ikut pantang urut for 7 days.  Bengkung, yes! Pagi pakai full bengkung but pukul 6 petang jer, dah tanggal sebab apa? Sebab nak mandi.... tak leh angkats ngan dia nyer gatal and heavy peluh due to the param, kapur and limau perut.  My main priority is cleanliness and personal hygiene.  Kalau ler dah berpeluh2 then u kasik susu badan, u urself feel uncomfy, am i right to say this? But malam, i never forget to use my own mini bengkung, sapu minyak panas kat perut, massage a bit and wrap up ~ for about a month. 
3. Mandi ~ orang dalam pantang kena mandi sekali jer kan? Ahhhhh akak mandi 2 kali, dengan air sejuk lagik.... Shhhhhhhhh sebab my master bathroom takde heater as we don like water heater.  Pagi by 7am dah mandi, lepas tu mandikan budak.... then petang mandikan budak dulu and by 6pm, my turn to mandi. Like i've said, my priority is hygiene and cleanliness. 

One thing for sure, i thanked and LOVEDDDD my mother sebab my mum tak banyak songel.  She know i langgar pantang but she said, i'm big enuf to think for myself asalkan jangan terlebih batas.  She also admit, certain things is petua orang2 lama yang kekadang can follow and some can buang jauh2. 

Macam bab demam.  Dulu bila my mum/dad demam, dia suka tak nak mandi and selubung bawah selimut.  Dorang cakap, kluarkan pelu so bleh cepat baik.  But when they start to live wif me, i changed their mindset, i forced them to bathe, eat Panadol and sleep with a light breeze from the fan.  It works and now, they really follow my modern practice cos time change... so do I.

P/S: Sorry kalau menyinggung mana2 pihak.  Tak bermaksud nak kutuk petua orang2 yang dah makan garam lebih dari kita.  But kekadang certain things can be followed and certain things kita can bilis (to me jer.....)