From day ONE, I was warned.... B E W A R E
But i'm stubborn...
In the end, i burnt myself.... serve me right for ALWAYS being the candle, always sacrifice to shine the darkness
*** stare @ Norm ***
Those who know me, will know me....
When i like, i will sincerely and honestly say the truth. When its your bad dress day, i will go upfront to say, "Hei ur behaviour sucks", and when u're down i will always try my very best to be there for you.
In my vocabulary, Monday Blues never exist...
People quote me as a SUPERWOMAN but few have seen me cried, cried as in REAL CRY.
*** grin at Aidil, Norm and hubby ***
I have no enemies and honestly i have no intention to create one... but i have people who mistaken me.
Not once, but thrice...
The 1st 2 (which was longggg loonngg ago), i proved them wrong.... when they realised that they mistook me, they ran away from me becos they are too SHY to admit it.
But the 3rd one, hhmmmm i tink i hafta walk a long way to find the answer....
Maybe there's no answer to it...
Or shall i jus keep it the way it should be?
Cos in life, i can't be pleasing eVeRyOnE...
And people do make mistake too!
So be it and let bygone be bygone....
haizzz...i feel for you dear. Especially abt the part of not being able to please everyone and its natural for people to make mistakes too. Sometimes i feel drained trying to be nice to everyone and not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings. I think for once, i want to do something that will make me happy too, not just for anyone's sake.
ReplyDeleteYup, thats what i'm gonna do too......
ReplyDeleteI may be BOLD in my words...
But deep down in my heart, i meant nuthing.....
Haizzzz.....
Hug Nazlin ketat ketat......
I have never tot of you as that dear. U always come across to me as a cool but definitely responsible mum!*hugz kak Zue*
ReplyDeleteThe problem with some humans is that they tend to judge a book by its cover ALL the time.Often they take a looonnnggg time to finally realise that there is more than just the cover, learn to take time to at least browse through the synopsis people.. (hugzz MoMMa Zue)
ReplyDeletethe common prob is...ppl tend to judge even without knowing you well. only from yr words & actions they thought that they really know who you are. tis is what i say it's not fair. get to know 1st....then talk as much as u want!!!! betul tak zue?
ReplyDeleteIn life..... its hard to please evryone or even anyone.....
ReplyDeletekonperm ada ajer yg tak betol nyer.... almaklum sajerlah... kita hanya insan biasa...
pple judge the tings pada dasarnya sajer.... but fer those who know u well over the yrs shall cherish u as wat u are.... these are the peepz who'll be there fer u walaupun tsunami melanda....stay kewl...be funky...& fer sure menten always yeah.
nyah kenape kau berfeeling emo ni.....takpe2...sabar dulu eh nanti aku balek kau bleh luahkan hati & perassan kau.....kekekeke
ReplyDeleteYou cannot always make everyone happy, and you cannot always be the "candle that burns itself whilst giving shine to others" because people are all not perfect. Just look at our fingers. It's not even, some short and some long. One thing that I have learnt in my life is that don't brood over someone who are a natural SNOB. They're not worth it. Coz if you do, you'll feel terrible forever. As long as you know that you are on the bright side, let it go. Some people are just not grateful that they're alive and rich.
ReplyDelete**let me give a big hug**
ReplyDeleteDear Sis.....you don't even have to please anyone except your hubby *grin grin*...hehehe....ok, on a more serious note....betol per! U don't need to make others like you or smile at their comments or just be a fake poser....be yourself and if they like you being yourself, then great....if those who don't & rant about you, buat bodoh suaaaa.....that means they don't even take time to learn about you & not worth your time / friendship :)
ReplyDeleteI dont know you that well yet but from the comments, you're liked by people who appreciate you. Tak rugi kita bersabar dan berbaik dgn org. Mmg sakit hati kdg2 bila dpt tau kita tak berharga langsung dlm hidup org tu... Tapi yerlah, nak jadi org baik ni bukan senang..nak jadi org jahat sesaat je dah cukup... Stand firm to your ground.
ReplyDeleteIn life no1 can be perfect....Every1 has their flaws.....And 1 thing 4 sure we can't be pleasing every1....But sumtimes I wonder we always haf to try to please others...Haf others try to go the extra miles to please us.....But sis serious ppl tends to look/find others fault but haf they ever try to look/find their faults instead.....Relakss......Been thru this kinda shit b4.....And I really learn my lesson...NOW i only care for my family and those really2 close wiz me.....others....sorry will haf to keep a shoulder length away....as ppl tend to mistaken u as being nosy if u get too involved...Hugzzz
ReplyDeleteWei wei maknya mcm sama je pesen ko gan aku eh..sebab tu aku suka..hahaha
ReplyDeleteNak dibuat mcm mana maknya dah mmg kita berbual mcm makcik2 quarters makcik2 pasar tapi we dont mean any harm..lagi kita step angel tapi belakang cakap mcm nak rak..lagi susah datang tol tak!!!!! But watever it is, just focus on your loved ones and those who appreciate wat you Are wotays!!!..Tak yah nak suck up to those yg mistook you..Tell them Leh Belah Kayu sampan pelan2 in d Kolam..heheh ..
sis...i may not know you that well...we never meet up before (maybe we should one day) hehehe...but from what i see...you are a nice fun loving person. Sabar yer...
ReplyDeleteSo far I never heard "anything bad" said about me...YET!...maybe ade..but belum TERmasuk kat my telinga lagi kot!!...mintak2 tak de lah yerr...hehehehe
Whatever sis...JUST BE YOURSELF!!! Don't care what other might say OK!!! Tak mau sedih2 ahhh....*hugs*
wat to do nyah in life people expect us to give to others but they themself not willing to give to others. Sungguh tidak adil.... kan kan..
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