ReD MeaNs AnGrY? Ohhhh ooohh!!!! You'Re iN trouBLe....

I've come across "some people", when they saw my tummy and asked, "Hhhmmm how many months oredi???"

"24 weeks...." I said

"Hhhmmm why your tummy still small eh?"

SiGhhhh.................... breaThe iN BreaThe ouT

i'm "so called" used to all these remarks.  I tried to keep quiet and add, "A-ah, small kan? Both pregnancies are small too and some can even said, like i'm conceiving a baby rat do u know that?"

When people heard me saying tis, most of them will laff off... but deep in my heart, i always tell myself... its ok Zue, tummy small baby will come out easy.  So you won't have a hard time during labour.  Anyway both bois came out at 2.93kg & 2.84kg.  Whereas some, tummy so bigggggg but baby came out only smaller than mine.  To me, it all depends on ur luck... For me, i was in labour for 6 hrs for IZ and 13 minutes for AQ whereas some others whom i knew was inlabour for more than 24hrs or even 36hrs jus to get their baby out... Wat most important is, both momma and baby are healthy. 

I jus don understand, people pass comment wifout even thinking of the mother's feelings.  You know how scared a mother is esp during pregnancy when such comments are being passed? Thruout the pregnancy, mummy will always wonder is her baby gonna be ok? Will her baby come out perfectly or will there be any complication during or after birth? Will her baby have any physically or internally defect during birth?? 

Anyway, i always swallow deep deep... wateva people wanna comment, let them be cos its ur mouth and you're free to comment.  But should there be a day which i jus keep quiet and never gonna entertain you wif my cheerful character, tink back and recall...

"Wat did i say wrong to Zue eh?"

Hihihihi... Good nite folkssssssssssssssssss!!!

P/S: I can still remember, i always have nightmares when comes nearer to full term.  Mommas out there, did you too????