KnOwinG Ur PartNer tHrU TheiR ReaCtiOnZzz...

Its not an easy task for a husband or wife to know and understands someone whom they call "SpOuSe"... No doubt they have been living together for long, there are a lot of couple out there who still doesn't really know who is their "SouLMaTe".  With that, misunderstanding arises and in result, kids became the ViCTiM... So the moral of the story is,

Know ur ParTNer well if you wanna have a LoNg eVaLastiNg MarriaGe....

Year 2007 is approaching soon... EhhheemmmmZzz, as a GraDuaTe frOm PsYcHoLoGy, let me share some tips which i have been following.

1. By sending SMSes, it means "GiVinG aTTenTioN"...
   If your partner simply LurVes to send you SMSes, maybe more than once a day, jus to say "Have you eaten?" "Wat are you doing?"... Don be disturbed and get it all wrong that he/she is jealous or doubt in you,  it simply means that your partner lurves to give you attention. 
   
2. By pHoneCaLLs it means "i MiSS yOu"...
   If your partner simply LuRveS to call you, jus to listen to your voice... Don be disturbed but instead you should be ProUd cos it means that he/she misses your voice and felt secured wheneva he/she heard your voice. 
   
3. By remaining SiLenCe, it means "I'm BoreD, TireD aNd SiCk oF yOu"...
   Normally its the HusBanD who choosed to remain quiet during "coLd WaR"... Hahahaa... SiLenCe iS a KiLLer so don be tricked by it!!!!  By being silent, don take him as a clown where you can continue to use him like a punching bag but instead, take ONE STEP BACK and try to calm down.  Cos during "coLd wAr" there's lotsa FiRinG and when FiRe meets FiRe, phhuhhhhhhhhhhhhh its will destroy everything.  Try to solve things ONLY when it is calm.... cos when FiRe meets WaTer, its much more easier to solve a matter.
   
4. By caRessiNg, it means "SoMethiNg iS noT riGhT SoMeWheRe"...
   If your partner tries very hard to caress you and kiss ur forehead while watching TV, it may mean something is not right somewhere... cos he/she may have done something wrong (things that you may or may not know) that requires your forgiveness.  If he/she is showing their sincerity to say sorry, you also don "tekan minyak lah".  But instead, accept him/her wif open arms... always remember that not all human are PerFectioNiSt... we try to forGiVe & ForGet, but i don deny certain issues can be forgiven but not forgotten, ahaksss!!!
   
5. By restiNg oN tHe ShouLder, it means "I NeeD LoVe"...
   If suddenly your partner leans against ur chest/shoulder, maybe it means that he/she wans to be loved or wanna share their problems which has been troubling them.  Be open and try as much to lend your shoulder for them to cry on.
   
6. By crYinG, it means "I LoVe YoU"...
   Have you eva seen ur husband CRY? Hahahhaa... i have!! I have!!! Hihiiihihi... if your husband cry for you, meaning he really really lurves you!  With that, always try to take good care of your marriage.  Don eva make use of his sincerity...
   
7. By bReaKinG tHE ruLeS, it means "ProTeST"...
   If your partner purposely break the house rule, eg: coming back home late at nite when he already knew that you don like it... and by doing so, he/she is trying to test your patient.  Try to recall, maybe it means that your partner is XiaN being controlled.  So never ever set a high standard rules which could restrict his/her movement and always remember that life after marriage, does not mean he/she should let go of their social lifes... i always remember tis song, "Even lovers need a holiday".  So to refrain from having such sour experiences, build a marriage based on sincerity & happiness...
   
8. By sTaRinG inTo tHe eyEs BlinDLy, it means "ConFuZed"...
   If your partner suddenly stared blindly into ur eyes, its a sign that he/she is confused and trying very hard to focus to find an answer of what type of person you are.  Maybe you should change and focus more on your characteristic.  Don be like certain people, today ok-ok but tomorrow, pull long face... very unpredictable.... jus like someone @ my workplace, ahaksss!!!
   
9. By dRiftinG aWay, it means "i HaTe YoU"...
   If your partner suddenly try to run away from you, maybe it means that he/she is too disappointed wif you or maybe no longer could feel the togetherness like before.  And it is not strange if the feelings developed into HaTreD... if you still love your marriage, try to find a good time to sit down and discuss about both your weaknesses and wats the cause this thing to happen.  Try to make full use of the "5 WiFe RuLes.... Why, What, Who, Which, Where....."  when solving the problem.  If your marriage could be save, sacrifice and try to change for the best and try to find the key which leads to happiness... REMEMBER, the  key is always wif you!!!

All the best... and may Allah smiles upon you, now and foreva!!! Amin..............

P/S: Nonchik, you wanted so much a happy marriage and you always tell me that you set both me & bro as your idol, so i wrote tis especially for you!!  Penat mak perah otak nyah!!  I love you babe!!!