P.O.S.I.T.I.V.E

 

Manusia hari ini suka bersangka-sangka
Ada sangkaan baik... Ada sangkaan buruk

Orang beribadah disangka riak
Orang yang relax disangka malas
Orang yang pakai baju baru disangka menunjuk

Orang yang pakai baju buruk disangka zuhud (hina)
Orang makan banyak disangka pelahap
Orang makan sikit disangka kedekut

Orang baik disangka buruk
Orang buruk disangka baik
Orang senyum disangka mengejek

Orang masam disangka merajuk
Orang bermuzakarah disangka mengumpat
Orang diam disangka sombong

Orang menawan disangka pakai susuk
Orang nampak ceria disangka membela

mana tahu yang diam itu kerana berzikir kepada Allah

mana tahu yang senyum itu kerana bersedekah

mana tahu yang masam itu kerana mengenangkan dosa

mana tahu yang menawan itu kerana bersih hati dan mindanya

mana tahu yang ceria itu kerana cergas cerdasnya

Jauhi sikap suka bersangka-sangka kerana ia bakal memusnahkan ukhwah seperti musnah nya kayu dimakan api…

Satu benda yang kita lihat, macam-macam kesimpulan yang boleh kita buat. Semuanya bergantung bagaimana kita melihatnya.

“Tegakkan Islam dalam diri kamu.. nescaya Islam akan tertegak diatas bumi kamu” Imam Al-Syahid Hassan Al- Banna.

The happiness of our life depends on the quality of our thoughts...

Kebahagiaan hidup tertakluk pada kualiti pemikiran kita

Pujilah... orang pasti tersenyum :)

Niat hari ini untuk ceria bahagia dan membahagiakan semua makhluk Allah dan lihat betapa bahagia kita nanti. Mulakan dgn pujian ikhlas...

SesungguhNya Allah Maha Kaya dan Maha Mendengar...

Seorang kenalan menegurku menyebar perkara yang baik menerusi FaceBook... katanya, FB ni dimulakan oleh Yahudi maka tak perlu menyebar dan ada cara lain untuk menegur.  Aku terima seadanya.  Mungkin kesilapan ku yang aku tak perasan.  Mungkin orang tak suka tapi aku tak paksa untuk orang membaca.    

Namun, sesungguhNya Allah Maha Kaya dan Maha Mendengar... selepas pulang dari ceramah Ustaz Azhar Idrus right before midnite, i stumbled upon a sharing from dear fren which i am now sharing to you guys.

Betol kata Mak Lang, "Nak menyampaikan sesuatu terserah keselesaan masing masing... N banyak cobaan..."  Mungkin ada orang suka, ada orang tidak.  Yang nyata, kerana FB lah aku berubah.  Kerana FB lah, aku sedar where i stand sebab apa, kawan2 FB share with me what they have attended, words of motivations which opens up my mind.

Aku selalu ingat kata2 mak, dalam hidup ni, kalau dah bodoh jangan sombong...

And best part, I was deleted... Thank you Allah, for making that someone part of my fren even for a while.  

Where have WE been hiding?

 Wardina Saffiyah said last Saturday during the Kovensyen Muslimah Kontemporari, 

"Saya selalu jugak ke Singapura, but today, I am shocked to see that there is actually LOTSA MUSLIMAH IN SINGAPORE!!!!  Ye lah, Singapura ni kan, sebuah negara kosmopolitan... Alhamdulillah, penuh panggung ni..... And one question i want to ask, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN HIDING???"

I smiled........

Actually true, dulu, masa I went to Australia, i hardly see people with hijab.  But recently, during my trip there, i could see MANY! And i also did ask, "Mana datang orang2 ni sumer? Hihihi..."

Well, slowly, everyone change..............Alhamdulillah!

Mungkin (personally) masa belom berhijab, Allah kaburkan mata and setelah berhijab, Allah bukakan mata and those infront of me are the direct examples during my past... nampak orang berpakaian sexy, i whispered, "Ni lah aku dulu, dah banyak dosa aku berpakaian sebegini...."  Nampak orang berkaler-kaler rambutnya, I whispered, "Ni lah aku, satu waktu dulu. Berpenatan kumpul amalan, ternyata amalan tu mungkin tak diterima sebab mewarna rambut adalah HARAM, yet i still do it."

Thank you Allah for waking me up from my deep sleep... ternyata masih ada ruang kasihMu buat diri ini.

And I thanked all my SAHABAT who have been thru with me.... you know who you are. 

Indeed true, "Bila kita berubah kearah yang SATU, Allah akan jumpakan kita dengan orang2 yang sama2 ingin menuju kearah itu......."

Mungkin ramai diantara mereka yg baru berhijrah dilempar cemuhan seperti:

1) Dressing ko skarang macam makcik2 sei...

2) Pakai jer tudung tapi baju ketat, baik bukak jer tudung...

3) Macam ye-ye jer dekni. Baru berhijrah dah macam Ustazah FB...

I heard it a lot, especially from frens yg baru berjinak2 memulakan phasa baru dalam hidup mereka. Hanya 3 jer yg boleh kunasihatkan kat mereka yang teraniya...

"SABAR, REDHA dan BERDOA buat mereka yg menganiayi semoga Allah bukakan hati mereka untuk bertaubat..."

Dan jawapan ku buat ketiga-tiga kata "pedas" tu adalah;

1) biarlah kita dikata berpakaian ala makcik, fesyen ketinggalan zaman, asalkan kita tidak berpakaian seperti umat akhir zaman...

2) mungkin seseorang tu menerima hidayah Allah secara tiba2 dan keinginan nak berhijab datang serta merta namun wardrobe tak punya apa2 proper. And to change the whole wardrobe ain't cheap ya. Give her time, doakan dia instead, mudah-mudahan Allah berikan dia rezeki dapat beli baju2 yang lebih sempurna, sejagar dengan tuntutan agama...

3) mungkin apa yg dipelajari dia bersungguh2 nak share. Not everyone know EVERYTHING ya.  Everyday is a learning thing for YOU and ME... And dia buat camtu sebab dia sayang korang and dia pun nak korang masuk syurga sama.  Kalau mu rasa menyampah, then DON'T READ. As simple as that mah... Don't need to label!!!

Last but not least, one thing for sure, they are heading towards that direction. But those who mengata, HAVE YOU?

Till i blog again.............. tataaaaz!

Oh MoMMa... Holiday is O.V.E.R!!!!

Today, lotsa proud parents post pictures of their children heading off to school in FaceBook, especially my 2 dotter ketip kutip, Auni Marsya and Aura Mysha as well as niece, Erika and i share all their joy!  Thru FB, could see that most of them are newly birds into Nursery, or into Primary and or even into Secondary. Errrr errr ITE tarak?

As for me, nuthing much to update since all 3 boys are still in the same school.  Izz & Aqil still in Innova Primary while Adly is in Kidz Meadow :)

Today, a little bit rush for the boys since Izz had a hard time waking up thou Ibu woke him up at 6.10am.  Not once but twice and in the end he move his butt out from his comfy bed at 6.23am!.  Gossshhh!  The best part, he entered the bathroom, heard some water splashing and he came out with his clothes still on! I asked him, "kenapa tak mandi, bang?" and he answered, "Solat Subuh kan?".  I dunno whether to laugh or to get mad.  So what i did was to take in a DEEP DEEP breathe...and i guess, he know very well my "silent language".

As a new student, especially in P1, sure parents are as worried as me (last time).

How will they handle themself at school?

How they clean themself after poo/pee?

Can they pay the uncle the correct change?

What food did they eat?  Healthy or junks?

Yadaa... yadaa... yadaa...

I have been thru all these.  At first, kanchiong oso lah.  Bedek ah i never kanchiong.  But i did ask myself, last time, during our time, HOW DID WE SURVIVED?

We pooed we still manage to clean it ourself without having our mum beside us.

We lined up at the shool tuckshop (last time they call tuckshop, now canteen eh?) and managed NOT to go hunger.

We eventually managed to "shop on the spot" @ the school bookshop to grab those colorful and fanciful stationery.

So to all parents, jangan paranoid rabak-rabak ok.  Let them venture themself and praise them when they manage to accomplish all the above, except the stationery part hokey.... hihihihi

Same as other parents, me too look forward to come back home today to hear their stories...  ooohhh 6.00pm, please hurry!

Till i blog again......................... muacks!

Goodbye 2012... Hello 2013!

Today is the last day of 2012, before we say a good HELLO to TwentyThirteen.

Well, 2012 has been a good year to me and my family, Thee Izzueamy as well as our business, Le Photographe.  Let's recap some of the things that happen along the way which is too sweet/sad to be forgotten...

From Allah we came from, to Him we return...

Early this year, we are sadden by a shocking news.  A good fren didnt make it during the tragic accident.  Allahyarham Bukhari Bin Safiee aka Bo, you are always in our prayers... A few months later, my sister's dad in law left us due to old age... followed by Azmi's aunt in JayBee... as well as our auntie sedara, Cik Ani who had fight breast cancer for years.  Life is indeed so fragile.  Today, we may see them in laughter.  When comes tomorrow, they are gone :(

Minah is forever a MINAH... 

Went to not one but TWO concerts!!! 1st was my idola, Ella... was a great show having to see her from far but not too far.  Another one was Search & Wings - Double Trouble, power eventhou Amy suara a little bit pancit but they are still my lagenda.

Tempat Senang
We have known Tempat Senang for quite sometime, i guess during Multiply days but only in 2012, we really look into it.  Since i was looking around to do some special birthday treat for dear husband, I went to recce their website and instantly made a booking with them.  I booked their luxurious suite called Sultan, prepared birthday cake and even flowers.  It was a heaven being there and i even blog down good words for them in TripAdvisor. A place which i called it Mini Bali...

S.A.T.U

In May 2012, i decided to go back to class.  Iqra....... to me, this is the biggest investment in my life!  Thou i have read Quran before but last time 'phonics' aint the same as now. I felt much more confident everytime i "date" with all the 'mats" during my Iqra class.  Mat Arid Li Sukun... Mat Wajib Mutasil Mat Munfasil dan mat mat yg swaktu dengannya. Haha!!! And alhamdulillah, in July 2012, I have decided to put on the HiJaB... It was a BIG decision.  Could remember clearly, on the nite of "Isra' Mi'raj", I was choosing photos.  Since i can't join the Majlis Bacaan Yassin at Woodlands Stadium, i decided to recite some zikir at home.  And while i was doing so, suddenly i cried.  Cried sooooo much, as heavy as the rain.  At the same time, I asked myself, "is it, it?".  The day after, i pulled a shawl and wear it. Before this, I am someone who is always with sleeveless be it to work or leisure but on Thurday, 5th July, everything changed. Those which i thot was impossible became possible. Afterwhich i could feel the difference, spiritually.  I am more a calm person, more forgiving, always appreciate more especially the LOVE from those around me. And Alhamdulillah, after the change, Allah brought me more to those who are heading towards that "ONE" direction. Thank you Allah. 

Son, our ASSET

Yes! My eldest son khatam his Al-Quran in May and we managed to do a ceremony only in December, due to ayah's tight schedule.  As a parent, I self declare, I am proud of him.  Ibu mana yang tak bangga kan?  Anak2 ni kan amanah dari Allah SWT.  Mereka diibaratkan sehelai kain putih. Sebagai ibu bapa, kita lah yang harus mencoraknya.  Kalau elok, batik lah coraknya. Kalau tak elok, comot lah kainnya.

Ohhh what a boring entry to end 2012 right? Hahahhahahaha 

People asked me, "so wats ur resolution" and i smiled cos i never had one...  To me, a new year is like a blank book. The pen is in your hands. It is your chance to write a beautiful story for yourself. I can never predict what's 2013 will bring us but one thing for sure, no matter how busy we may be, never forget those people around you especially your FAMILY.  MAKE time, BUY time and APPRECIATE them more cos life is so fragile.  Today you may see them, tomorrow will never know if they will come... 

Goodbye 2012.......... welcoming 2013 :)

21.12.2012

Orang mempersendakan akhir zaman? Betol ke?  Hhhmmm i don't tink so they dare...

And when it didn't happen, they said CRAP?!  Laugh it off cos it was a false alarm?

Hhhhmmm... let me try read their minds.  

The actual fact is, they are actually scared when they see those predictions.  Bedek ah korang tak takot.  Tapi kenapa harus dipercayai it will end on 

21.12.2012

Sepatutnyer, korang patut takut dengan percayanya akan KIAMAT, bukan BILA kiamat tu nak tiba.  Paham eh, perbezaan antara dua ayat ini.   

And orang dok post about it, akak nak tanya, sudah ke anda bersedia menempuh KEMATIAN?

Dah confirm ke TIKET untuk ke syurga?

Dah cukup tekan CTRL+S = AMALAN? 

Dari kita dok mengira, memikir, menanti "hari itu", bukan kah lebih baik kalau kita mempersiapkan diri untuk "hari itu" agar kita cukup bersedia berjumpa denganNya.

Persoalan Kiamat, kematian, kehidupan, rezeki, jodoh pertemuan, Qada dan Qadar serta segala yang berkaitan dengan alam ghaib adalah kerja Allah. Dia tak mintak hamba-hambaNya mencampuri urusanNya itu kerana ada AMANAH lain yang mampu dilakukan, yang perlu dan sepatutnya dilakukan.

Kalau pada masa sekarang kita berhadapan dengan waktu makan, pi makan. Bila time malam and rasa mengantuk pulak, pi bobok. And bila dah tiba waktu solat, pi solatlah. Ahhhh inilah AMANAH terhadap Allah yang patut diutamakan.  Bukan dok merungsingkan fikiran sampai nak menghitung segala hari, mengambil peduli segala peristiwa dan tarikh dan mengaitkan dengan sesuatu yang akan membawa maksud “masuk campur urusan Allah”. Bukan itu sebenarnya yang Allah suruh.

So kengkawan yang ku sayangi, meh lah kita sama-sama menuju kearah yang SATU.  Jangan dok berlengah lagi.  Kita start dari HARI INI, can?  

Lup Sayang kat u'ols...

Till i blog again............................. tatazzzz

P.S: Teringat masa zaman chatting dulu, masa akak masih muda remaja.  Seorang teman PM and asked, "Kak, LailatulQadar tu kiamat eh?" Hurr hurr hurr...