Tis morning hor, while on the way to work hor, there's an interesting topic featured on air....
The QUESTION from one of the listeners>>>>>
mertua saya stay wif me n i am paying 4 all the bills, den harus ke i kasi?
And the ANSWERS from some of the listeners >>>>>
just now sum1 was asking if she needs 2 give $ although she is paying the bills? Let me ask if she can pay back the $ her parents used 2 raise her!
bro, parent gua tak mau menerima wang dari gua tapi tiap2 bulan gua akan belikan brg2 keperluan rumah dan akan membawa mereka holiday keluar negara.
Eh mestila bagi apa... Common sense.. Mentang2 ibu bapa sendiri tak kan nak ambil kesempatan mcm tu.. Tak berhati perut ke..
Ckp pasal kasi duit dgn mak ayah,2 mmg tanggungjawab sorang anak doesnt matter small or big amt.Hidup akan berkat even u give $50/mth.Kalau tak bagi langsung,i langgar dgn car terus kojol
Tak kira mertua atau mak bapak sendri. They are the most important peeps in our life. Wifout them you wont have your husband/wife nor children....
So the bottom line is........................... SenDri MaHu InGaT!!!!!!
Teringat beta, 10 years ago while i was attending a funeral. The tukang mandi mayat said, syurga terletak dibawah telapak 3 ibu.... Ibu kandung, Ibu mertua, Ibu tiri
So treasure her while she's still alive.... NEVER TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HER!! Sob sob sob.............
true I pun dengar jugak.....Darah I up up n away bila I dengar si dolmat bin belon tu tanya dat kinda qns........Common sense lah....Arghhh but wateva it is...Believe in Karma.....Dolmat bin belon tu pun ada anak...so ingat apa yg dia buat skg ...akan diperbuatkan semula kat dia
ReplyDeletehahahaa lepak tol ah..nanti sok lusa anak dia or nantu dia plak ah on air tanya the same question!!!
ReplyDeleteGue sokong dok sikit atau banyak berkat dunia akhirat pasal merekalah yg sentiasa mendoakan kita..Tis is wat my mum told me lah..as gue sua tinggal jauh west dia east...Jadi siang malam dia berdoa supaya aku selamat!! For mak mertua plak, ada yg OK & ada yg KO but doesn't mean duit allowance kena potong..eeh melalut plak aku..watever it is jgn lokek gan orang tua nanti reseki kita pon terlokek jugak..kwang3...
MAK AGREE 1000000000000% nyah!!!
ReplyDeleteYup, i pun dah nampak ni macam nyer case....
ReplyDeleteSungguh BegOk sKaLi ni SentuL...Kasihan kekadang mendgr cerita² begini..ApaLah Nasib Parents & PIL dorang kan..dpt anak/menantu mcm ni...SkoLah tinggi² tp takde aKeiii!!!!
ReplyDeleteJgn ckp $50 ler..Kalau takde, kasi $10 pun dorang Hepi, Babe...
Org tua kite tak harapkan apa² pun from dier child..tp berhati prut ler..
Nak kuar pun nak pakai duit kan..eventou bill rumah da byr..tambang bas nak kena jalan kaki ke??
i shall say its a STUPID question to ask....betul tak sis??!!!....geram sehh....
ReplyDeletetapi sesiapa yg makan cili...pandai2 lahh yer minum air banyak2....hehehehheee....
ini adalah antara org2 yang KEDEKUT.
ReplyDeleteOooppssss! Hah!!! Kan Mak *teeeet* dah berbunyik.... hihihi
ReplyDeleteSabar mak *Teettt*, sabar kay........ dah breakfast?
I tink so.......
ReplyDeleteOh ya..... KEDEKUT ni ada banyak kategori tau. Takot nak komen, nanti cakap kita ni LASER.... kang ada lagik yang tersinggung, yiKes!
ReplyDeleteafterall they are our parents.. we must remember how hard they struggle to raise us...jadi dun be selfish to our parents/inlaws lah yer...
ReplyDeletei believe retribution exists.. so if we dun give our parents $$, our children will not give $$ either.
nie blh jadi sensative issue...for me i kasi my mom & hubby kasi his mom. tapi of course my mom i kasi lebih sebab jaga ean.
ReplyDeleteso ngok meh???
ReplyDeletewant to give or not also want to ask ppl.
No brainer....
To me when u ask such questions, you already have the intention not to give. So why bother to ask?? Pfffft...
haiz.. nie tandanyerr og yg tanya tu takdekerja carik kerja tanya soalan bodoh...
ReplyDeletedahsyat kan? tak kan itu pun jadi topik perbualan? dah sememangnye per....ish samdol betul la
ReplyDeleteishk...ishk...ishk.....Dolmat bin belon tu otak dia mati kot....kesian.
ReplyDeleteSo calculative. I can't believe he/she could even ask it!
ReplyDeleteU mean u understand ahhhhhhh wat i wrote, cHamPiOn ahhhh kau, lincoln!!!
ReplyDeleteKANASAI!!!! Mother in law or mother step or mother own... all are mothers. Must give mah! It's your responsibility. What the????? No brain or what? *grunting*
ReplyDeletesudah trg lagi menyuluh...kekadang org2 nie tanya soalan yg dah terang2 ada answer...
ReplyDeletekalau mak dia tak tinggal sama rumah pun, she still need to pay for her utilities bill apa....
berapa byklah org tua pakai lektrik kita, makan makanan kita, minum air kita, pakai air kita, etc....
haiz...dunia dunia, apa nak jadi *geleng kelapa*
Heyyyy...... whazzat supposed to mean? :-(
ReplyDeleteAik. ibu tiri pun nak kena kasi ke?
ReplyDeleteNie i tanyer jek.....
But kalau u betol2 menyampah to the core ngan dia, macam mana?